Abena Abri-Form size XL adult breathable diapers (not pullups) are the most absorbent available. Adult briefs with tabs for incontinence. The cost actually saves money due to needing less changes. If you know this brand, then you know the quality. If you don't then you need to change and give these a try. Pack of 12, 3 packs available. Cash only. Can't always answer phone so please text .